BETTER WORLD: REPRESENT

Do you ever feel like you're not being represented?  Sometimes you think 'not accurately', and sometimes you realize that you are 'not at all'.

That's how I feel a lot of the time, and that's why I blog.

I'm a female, black, tall, Christian, attractive, smart, athletic, funny, and happy person. 

I don't see me very often.

I see:
  • Female, Black, short, attractive, smart, inquisitive, sarcastic, and happy
  • Female, Black, short, okay-looking, well-educated, know-it-all, boring, and desperate for a man
  • Female, white, medium-height (which maybe I am more than I am TALL), stay-at-home mom, crafty, married at 20 years-old in the middle of bible college
  • Female, white, tall, attractive, party-girl, w/ a mind for business, 'typical', and shackin'!
  • Female, African-American, short, big butt, weaved-out, smart, seeing a few guys, funny?, and confident
...but never myself.

I had this conversation with my best friend a while ago about how I feel like I'm missing from the media.  I remember realizing how much I actually look up to Michelle Obama, even at 23 (at the time), because of her skin complexion.  I look up to her, hope to meet & work with her, but still feel like she's not me.

The only people I know who I have anything in common with are my friends, sister, and mother.  Still, we are not perfect reflections of each other (THANK GOD)...

I don't see me in my work environments, and honestly, I don't see me in my play environments either!  (Sometimes on purpose.)

It's the strangest thing.

But that's why you should blog, go insty crazy, twitter, Facebook, pin, and tumbl, TOO!

We're missing your voice.  We haven't heard your story.  We don't know what we're missing, yet!

What do you have to say and how often do you want to say it?

I'm not a full-time/professional blogger, yet, but it's definitely something that I know for sure...  There is no such thing as too many bloggers or social media personalities.  Get up on YouTube!  Reboot your Wordpress.

WHY?

Because I need you.  The blogger that you look up to needs you.  The WORLD needs you!

How can you be used?  Who can you speak up for?

YES, some of us like to prepare more than others, but is your SEO more important that lighting someone else up and inspiring them to be great, proud, and encouraged??????

Think about that.

WHO CAN YOU REPRESENT?

with love,

Melissa.

xox! :)
I better 'go ahead' w/ my black, tall, athletic, smart, cute, funny SELF!!  Finished the Soldier Field 10 a few weeks ago!  #PROUD



Back To Basics

So I created this blog to help inspire myself and others, yet I find that my "energy" is in the purgatory of attitudes.

I don't complain much on here and I'm not supper peppy, and phony; but at the same time, I know that I don't like the way things come off.

I'm not going to change anything on purpose, but I will be more aware of the message I send and the sound of my posts.  If in fact that means that a lot of things change, then so be it!  If anybody knows that life changes when you're a little more aware, it's me.  The fitness experience is probably one of the few that literally permeates all parts of life.  It's a great way to philosophize and metaphorically speak on character, yet at the same time, it's a great way to just talk fitness!

So yeah.  I'm gonna stop posting so much with a "life happened to me" attitude and start posting more about what I did that happened to LIFE!

So yeah.  I'm only a few months deep on this blog, but it all counts and starting now things change for the better.

Hooray for life and health!

xoxo

Melissa